Okay, there are only 91. The last 9 are for you to figure out. Gotta leave room for possibilty.
1. Stomp in mud puddles. Get really wet! Ideally, have someone join you. |
2. Hug yourself and linger there. |
3. Open yourself to LOVE. What does that feel like? |
4. Breathe into any part of your body that you've forgotten about. Close your eyes and let yourself feel it. |
5. Read anything by Hafiz, Rumi or Walt Whitman and let it all just sink in. |
6. Spin around until you're dizzy and watch the world dissolve. |
7. Look into the eyes of another until you see your own reflection.
Allow yourself to feel union. |
8. Go outside with bare feet on grass or dirt. Breathe in the fecundity of the Earth and FEEL your connection to this planet. Let the energy fill you. |
9. Throw your arms open wide and imagine all the sweet honey of the Universe dripping all over you. Bask in the love. |
10. Eat some good, dark chocolate (or whatever else you love) and just sink into it. Explore it with all your senses and let the sensation fill you |
11. Play with yourself. Use your imagination. |
12. Go outside on a rainy day without a hood or umbrella and let the rain caress your face |
13. Find an animal to love and play with. Watch it just lay there and RECEIVE and take your cue from that. Let it love you back. |
14. Tell a story to a child and feel the wonder. Ask someone to tell you a story and go to that same place. |
15. Peer into the face of a flower until you find it peering back. |
16. Listen to the song of the birds in the morning. Listen at night too. They are different and both have something different to tell you. |
17. Smile and become aware of the muscles in your face and how you feel. |
18. Hug someone and let them hug you back. Stay there a little while |
19. Tune into your body and ask where it needs some attention. Touch that place and feel it come alive. |
20. Squish your toes in the mud. |
21. Tickle the leaves or blossoms of a tree with your nose especially after the rain. They will tickle you back. |
22. Take a bath and luxuriate in the womb-like feeling of being immersed in water. Put your ears under the water and listen. |
23. Walk barefoot in grass covered with morning dew. |
24. Strike up a conversation with a new person and let yourself be immersed in curiosity. |
.25. Find some sand to play with. Now play with it. For a long time |
26. Make some bread and knead love into it. Consider how many entities have contributed to the bread. Thank them. |
27. Talk to the plants around you then listen for their response. |
28. Sit down and watch a snail cross a path |
29. Find a pile of leaves.
Jump in! |
30. Watch the branches dance in the wind. For a long time. |
31. Go to the local dollar store with 5 bucks and let your inner child play. Now go home and play with what you bought! |
32. Wiggle. A lot. For a long time. |
33. Write all your worries on slips of paper. Tear them up. Blend them & mix with a batch of Jell-O. Put it in a tub & squish it beneath your toes. |
34. Watch the sunlight and shadows dance on the floor or wall. Do this until you forget about the time (it won't take long). |
35. Light some candles or a fire and dance with your shadow which will be beautifully illuminated on the ceiling. Merge with your shadow. |
36. Eat a ripe mango or peach (slowly) and let the juice drip all over you. |
37. Go to the beach, find a large stick and write I LOVE MYSELF in the sand as big as you can. Read it. Feel it. |
38. Buy a red helium balloon and fill it with your energy and intentions. Release it! Keep watching it until you can't see it anymore. |
39. Go outside and kiss the Earth. Let yourself be filled with gratitude for all that you have received from Her. |
40. Go outside and just watch the sunrise. Watch the clouds or sky changing colors and feel the wonder of it all. |
41. Go the nearest park and go on a swing. Just trust me on this.
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42. Take a bottle of bubbles with you in the car and blow them out the window the next time you're stuck in traffic.
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43. Caress every inch of your naked body with one long-stemmed red rose. Bless your body with each whispery stroke. |
44. Wander.
Wander some more.
Now more. |
45. Ask for help with something that is hard.
Allow.
Feel. |
46. Breathe. I mean really, mindfully, BREATHE.
Do this for ten minutes (at least). |
47. Ask someone to read to you. Maybe a favorite childhood book or a poem you love.
Let them. Allow. |
48. Forgive yourself for wherever you have transgressed.
Cry it out. FEEL.
Breathe. |
49. Go to the beach or a park with sand. Get sticks and rocks. Make an ephemeral art structure. Get lost in it. |
50. Get some clay at a local art store. Play with it. Get messy. Knead it. Put water on it. Pound it. Be primal. Have fun. |
51. Step away from your cell phone, PDA, computer or other electronic device for a day. Be in your body. Enjoy yourself. |
52. Roll down a grassy hill. Do it again. |
53. Find something that completely cracks you up.
Laugh.
Laugh some more. |
54. Do absolutely nothing for one hour. Notice what happens. Can you do it guilt-free?
If not, try again until you can. |
55. Find a buddy to play with. Go have play dates. Explore your world with your special friend.
Have fun. |
56. Go to a museum, find painting you love and look at it for a long time. Look for your story in it. Notice how you feel. |
57. Shut off your tv.
(simple but effective way to find more ecstasy) |
58. Give a massage.
Trade. J |
59. Let someone (especially a child) brush your hair. If you don’t have hair, let them massage your head. |
60. Take a walk or a bus ride with no destination in mind. Take a notepad and pencil. Record interesting things you see. |
61. Practice being kind to yourself every, single day.
What does that look like? Notice. |
62. Listen to anything by Mozart or another classical composer that you love with your eyes closed. Really let the music inside you. |
63. Allow a day (or an hour if that’s all you can manage) of SILENCE. Don’t talk. Just listen. |
64. Dance.
Dance some more.
And again.
A bit longer. |
65. Find someone fun and have a pillow fight.
Yell “PILLOW FIGHT!” |
66. Go to the beach.
Close your eyes.
Listen. Just be. |
67. Say YES to everything that feels good for a day. Have a YES day at least once a month. Schedule it. |
68. Say NO to things that hurt you and replace them with YES to the things that feel good. NOTICE what feels good. |
69. Let yourself feel sorrow if you need to. Don’t push it away. Cry it out until it’s gone. Feel the peace that lingers there. |
70. Support your friends. Let them support you. |
71. Allow yourself to experience what CARE feels like—both giving and receiving. |
72.
Serve. |
73.
Watch birds. |
74. Allow some chaos in your life. Notice what that feels like. |
75.
Relax. |
76.
Stretch.
Breathe.
Repeat. |
77. Embrace mystery. Surrender. Imagine you have no control. What does THAT look like? |
78. Get some paper and crayons. Go outside and do rubbings of as many textures as you can find. |
79. Take a break from worry and daydream instead. |
80. Make your favorite childhood comfort food and share it with your kids or a friend. |
81. Enjoy being alone. If you don’t, try one of the other 99 things listed here while you’re alone and see what happens. |
82. Get a piece of a paper. Write “Sometimes…” and keep going until you run out of things. |
83. Be your own superhero. Give yourself a superhero name. List your powers. Own them. Live them. |
84. Dream.
Dream.
Dream.
Never stop. |
85. Make a pillow fort. Bring a flashlight, some poetry and your favorite beverage. Invite a friend to join you. Enjoy. |
86. Notice how exquisitely beautiful the world is. Really let yourself SEE. Record the beauty in a journal. |
87. Look into the center of a raindrop resting in a leaf. What do you see? |
88. Put your hand on your heart. Say if I wasn’t so afraid, I would… (Keep going.) Do one of those things.
Then another. |
89. Look at yourself in the mirror. Look deeply into your own eyes. Say I love you. Mean it. |
90. Make a list of 10 things you love about yourself.
Now 10 about life.
Now 10 about the world. |
91. Live for the moment. It’s the only one you have.
Enjoy it. Savor it. |
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